Today, in a Washington Post piece about Memorial Day, the subject of language, regarding the observance of the holiday, was briefly addressed--specifically, the use of the phrase "Happy Memorial Day."
A link to the website of the Wounded Warrior Project was included in the Post story; the site has a page devoted to Memorial Day.
The page includes the following:
On Memorial Day, it's important to remember we are honoring our
fallen. For many, this day is not a happy occasion but a solemn one.
Here is some guidance on the appropriate messages to convey:
- Rather than “Happy Memorial Day,” say something like “Have a meaningful Memorial Day."
- It’s also not appropriate to thank a service member for their service on this day, as it is a day for remembering and honoring those who made the ultimate sacrifice.
- Take a moment to recognize and remember. You can even say, “Today and always, I’m remembering [name]."
The Wounded Warrior web page also includes this:
Memorial Day is a reminder of the brave men and women who served our country and gave their lives for our freedom.
It's not just a day off; it's a time to think about why we remember these heroes. For veterans, it's a chance to honor those who are no longer here.
Use this day to show how grateful we are for their bravery, and as a promise that we'll always remember their courage and sacrifice.